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Does God Promise You a Spouse?

Does God promise you a spouse in the Bible?

...that was the question that Rob Eagar over at thelife.com proposed recently.  His post tried to answer this question in the affirmative.   Many evangelicals through the years have often painted a picture that God promises a spouse to all believers.  Except there is one problem, no where in scripture does God make this promise.

Eagar said:

Does God promise us a spouse? The Bible says “yes” by describing Christians as the spiritual bride of Christ. Our true spouse is Jesus. Yet, many of us say, “I’m glad to be spiritually married to Christ, but I can’t feel Him. Wouldn’t it be better if I could enjoy God’s love with someone else? I want Jesus with skin on.” So, we pray for God to bring us an earthly mate.

This type of theology has created a generation of frustrated Christian singles.  No where in scripture does God promise a wife or husband to a believer on the sole basis that they are a Christian.   Christians are not the spiritual bride of Christ.  The spiritual bride of Christ is the Church (ecclesia).  Some would say Christians make up the church, thus Christ is our bride.  Maybe (that is pretty loose theology), but not in the erotic sense.  However, scripture is clear where we get this “bridal theology” from, such as  Ephesians 5:25:

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

Here, Paul speaks about the love that exists between a husband and wife and mirrors that love in non-erotic language (Paul uses agapate to describe this love) to describe the relationship between the Church and Jesus.  Agnieszka Tennant, writing for CT, posted this article about the over use of love language with Christ.   Her most telling quote reveals the trouble with the over use of the love language of God:

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Weddings

Christian "Wedding Crashers"

(I use the term “Christian Wedding Crashers” as a tongue and cheek way of referring to those people who are not typical church member seeking marriage.  Please do not be offended.  This is a light hearted term that some Christians have used for this situation. I do not believe these people are really crashing a wedding.   Please keep reading. )

“What an awesome wedding!  You did a great job.  You opened new doors for us into Christianity.” – is the comment that I heard from a wedding I once officiated.  Over the years, I have been conflicted by couples who come into my office asking me to officiate their wedding.  Normally, I have no problem doing a wedding for a church member or Christians who do not have a church home.  What has been a growing trend for a number of pastors, including myself, is what to do with non-Christian weddings?

Many Christians have been troubled with what to do with Christian “wedding crashers”, which are those people (who some Christians deem to be conflictual) who do not meet the “typical Christian” engagement period.  The typical Christian premarital situation looks like this:

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theology

The Buddy Christ

For years, Christians have innocently reduced Jesus Christ to a personal pal or best friend.  This theology is sometimes called the “Me and My Jesus” mentality.  It is comforting to know that Christians believe in a personal God, but how far can we take that image?  A good example of this was in the movie Dogma.  In the movie, the Catholic Church roles out a new image of “The Buddy Christ”.  In some ways irreverent, but yet funny, the scene from Dogma calls out to us Christians, who can talk about Christ as if we go out to Starbucks with him everyday.

True, scripture points to an individual believer’s confession as Jesus as Lord as the normal mode of salvation, but do we also forget that Revelation presents Jesus as the eternal Judge?  Do we forget that  God is eternal, divine, Master, Creator of the universe, the Alpha and Omega, the God of all things seen and unseen?  Do we dare approach God with concept of reducing The Almighty to our friend?

John Suk, a professor of homiletics at Asian Theological Seminary in Manila, Philippines gives a great non-western perspective on the “Me and My Jesus” mentality.  In 2005, Suk wrote an essay entitled, “A Personal Relationship with Jesus?” in Perspectives (A journal from the Reformed perspective).  Suk gives some great thoughts about how to approach the personal relationship with God issue.  Here are a few highlights:

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twitter

I’m Not Sold on Twitter in worship

A variety of news outlets  have commented on the growing trend in churches: Twitter Worship.  Time, New York Times, and Switched have covered the movement.  If you do not know about this trend, I’ll try to explain it in two sentences.  Using the social networking site, Twitter, worship attendees interact with the sermon, worship, and music.

Some churches even display “tweets” on their projection screens and the pastor interacts with the micro comments during the sermon.  The UMC Board of Discipleship has a good overview of the pros and cons of using twitter and other technology in worship.   Even Josh Harris questions the use of Twitter during worship.  Despite the popularity of Twittering, many have asked the question, “Is Twittering during worship really worshipful?”  I am a pretty technology dependent person, but I’m not sold on Twitter worship.

This is a difficult question to answer because there are some things to consider:

  • Twittering in worship attracts younger worshippers.  A segment of the population that is greatly prized by churches.
  • A Twitter worship service can attract the unchurched or non-Christians.
  • Using Twitter creates more of an interactive worship experience, which is something that people want need.
  • People are quickly becoming more connected through technology, thus connecting through technology can be a way to reach people for Christ
  • Twittering during worship is encouraging people to be reflective about God.

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Pentecost 3b

Caught in a Storm

Meteorology has always been a fascination of mine.  I would watch the TV and check out the internet websites that forecasted major weather events like hurricanes and snowstorms.  Weather storms are an interesting meteorological event.  Storms can be predicted but never do they present themselves as the weather forecasters predict.    Every summer and fall, hurricane predictors try to figure out how many major storms will hit land.  As we have seen from hurricane Katrina, storms can catch us off guard and teach us that we must be careful how we prepare for storms.

I think I loved weather events as a kid because that meant that there would be no school.  I guess I still have a little of that still in me, except I do not go to school anymore.  I remember one storm that hit the Mid-Atlantic with so much ice they closed school for days.  The storm iced everything with a half inch of slippery,cold ice.  All of the kids in the neighborhood broke out their ice skates and we skated all over the roadway!  The only way you could get anywhere was on ice skates.  We loved it because everything was shut down and we were stuck, which meant the school buses could not pick anyone up.

In this week’s readings, we read about two storms: one on land and one on the sea.  In the first storm, we read about David, the young anointed one in 1 Samuel 17.   David comes to the front line of the battle to face the giant Goliath.  This little shepherd boy is mixed up in this battle just as the armies meet.  Nobody thinks that David can beat Goliath, who represents the strength of the Philistines.  David is caught in a political storm as these two nations meet.

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Churches

Young People Don't Go To Church, or Do They?

There is a common misconception that young people are fleeing churches.   So many churches ask, “Where are all the young people?”   My friend Rev. Elizabeth Hagen on her blog discussed a similar topic a few weeks ago and gave some great thoughts on understanding young adults.  Christianity Today published an article discussing the ministry of Tim Keller of Redeemer Presbyterian in New York City.   Most of the article is geared toward Keller’s ministry and his bio.  The whole article is great, but the article begins with:

His church, Redeemer Presbyterian, has five crowded Sunday services in three rented locations—Keller dashes between them—with an average total attendance of 5,000. The service at Hunter is the largest, the “tourist service.” (For many years, Redeemer deliberately avoided publicity, but word has spread lately, and Keller estimates that hundreds of out-of-towners show up each Sunday.) Well over 2,000 people—mainly young whites and Asians you would expect to be sleeping off a late Saturday night—have come to this morning’s service.

Wow, “young people” in church… on Sunday morning no less.  What is due to this great success?  It has got to be a young hip preacher and cool band leading worship.  Nope.

Redeemer’s worship is seemly traditional. Instead of using video monitors, casually dressed worshipers follow a 20-page bulletin that includes hymns, prayers, and Bible texts. Organ and a brass quartet lead the music. For evening services, jazz musicians play contemporary Christian songs.

Standing 6’4″, with a bald head, glasses, and a coat and tie, Keller, 58, does not look hip. Nor is his sermon funny, charming, or daring. He preaches from the first chapter of Genesis, on the doctrine of Creation.  Keller speaks like a college professor, absorbed in his content, of which there is a lot

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God

Is God Moody?

Time recently published an article by Robert Wright, which tries to sort out how “the God” of the three Abrahamic religions could start off as violent and then moved to be more graceful.  Wright gives the impression that God is somehow moody.  Wright also attempts to bring together the Christian Old Testament, the Hebrew Torah, and Islam’s Koran.  I found this article to be inaccurate and misleading because the author tries to make sense of God from a logical stand point and not a theological stand point.  Below are five statements from the article and my five reactions.

#1

“The Bible isn’t the only Scripture with such vacillations between belligerence and tolerance. Muslims, who like Christians and Jews worship the God who revealed himself to Abraham, are counseled in one part of the Koran to “kill the polytheists wherever you find them.” But another part prescribes a different stance toward unbelievers, “To you be your religion; to me my religion.”

My Beef: If you want to understand God, you must understand God theologically.  To understand God and compare the God of Christianity to another religion is like trying to compare apples and oranges.  These three religions say three very different things about God.  Most religion professors would tell you that.

#2

“But the fluctuations aren’t really random. If you juxtapose the Abrahamic Scriptures with what scholars have learned about the circumstances surrounding their creation, a pattern appears. Certain kinds of situations inspired tolerance, and other kinds inspired the opposite. You might even say this pattern is a kind of code, a code that is hidden in the Scriptures and that, once revealed, unlocks the secret of God’s changing moods.”

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NFL

The Celebrities I Met & What I Learned About Their Faith

 

Ben Roethlisberger

Ben Roethlisberger

Earlier this year, a friend and a parishioner at my former church in Maryland asked me if I would like to give the invocation prayer again at the National Football League’s Players Gala and James Brown Awards.  Last year, I gave the invocation prayer at the event and got to meet James Brown (of CBS Sports), Bill Cower (former coach of the Pittsburg Steelers and Super Bowl winning coach), and other NFL players who were nominated for the “JB Award” for outstanding community involvement.  The gala also serves as a fundraiser for the Special Olympics.  This year, I happily accepted the invitation again and got to meet Ben Roethlisberger (Pittsburg Steelers Quarterback and Super Bowl Champion), Clinton Portis (Washington Redskin running back and Pro-Bowl starter), and Larry Fitzgerald (Arizona Cardinal wide receiver and Pro-Bowl MVP).

As I was traveling to the event, I could not help but wonder what place does a prayer have at a professional sports fundraiser and award show?  Sure, as a pastor I believe that we should desire to acknowledge God at these functions, but what do professional athletes think about prayer and invoking the name of God publicly?  Do these men of mega strength actively seek God out?  Sometimes after professional sports games on television players will mention God in passing as if God was a mere minor character in the player’s life.  Or during an interview, when professional athletes mention God more specifically and in great length the interviewer will cut off the athlete move on to more “important” facets of the game such as what edge the athlete had or what the athlete did before the game.  Still, some acknowledge “The Almighty”, “God”, or just “being blessed” but rarely mention “Jesus.”  In my mind, NFL players were not known for putting Christ as the center of their lives, either privately or publicly.

As I walked around the gala at the Washington D.C. Hilton and started to meet and take pictures with the players, I introduced myself and

John Riggins

John Riggins

mentioned my role in the program.  Most players did not say much, but they did allow me to take a picture with them.  As the time ticked down to my brief moment of prayer, I was ushered backstage and waited for my cue.  As I was waiting, I saw James Brown (J.B.) of CBS Sports, who is the driving force behind recognizing NFL Players and their community involvement at the event.  I decided to introduce myself and what I was doing there.  J.B., a former football player, affectionately embraced me and started to share with me in great length about his involvement with local pastors, local churches, prayer, accountability partners, and working with other religious organizations.  He also opened up about his faith in Christ.

J.B. also said something that got my attention.  In a very humble way, he said, “You know, what we do out there is something that is done only by the Holy Spirit.  You and I, do this for His sake, not ours.” Wow!  Here is a celebrity acknowledging the Holy Spirit.   He continued to speak about his faith in Christ and he said he enjoyed our time together as fellow brothers in Christ.  He also inquired about my journey with God, my ministry, my connection with the event, and my collegiate career in lacrosse.

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trinity

The Trinity: 3 = 1 and 1 = 3

Math has never been a strong subject for me.  I remember dreading  algebra, geometry (not that bad), and algebra II (got C’s and past, barely).  I took at practical math class my senior year in high school where I learn to balance a check book, learned about mortgages, understood the stock market, and all sorts of practical  mathematical concepts.  I got A’s in that class!  The issue I found with mathematics is that the vast majority of equations and problems you have to solve have one answer.  For some reason, my mind was more suited to the humanities like government, history, art, and english (sort of).  In those classes, the answer was usually subjective.   In the humanity classes, thinking and discussing were at the center of learning.  Memorizing math formulas and the rules of math was difficult.  Every time I got a concept in math class we would move on to another concept.  I could not keep up!

Theologically, there is a mathematical concept that has confused scholars, thinkers, and Christians for centuries.  The Triune God: 3 = 1 and 1 = 3.  We Christians are not polytheistic in our beliefs, but many non-Christians are confused by our math.  Many non-Christians see three separate Gods: The Father, The Son, and the Holy Spirit.  How can Christians be monotheistic?

Well, in the 3rd and 4th centuries, Christians were  struggling with their monotheistic concepts with the unity of The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.  Without getting into the history of the Trinitarian debate there were a few guys who seemed to solve the problem.  The Cappadocian Fathers gave us the understanding of “three hypostases and one ousia.”  This means that there are three substances, but one essence of God.  The Cappadocian Fathers stated that the Godhead (Father, Son, Holy Spirit) exists simultaneously in three modes of being, but are one in essence and unity. They have one nature and one is not subordinate to another.

Confused?  Think about it this one.  The properties of water have three modes or states.  Water can be a liquid, a gas, or a solid.  Water flows as a liquid, can be a vapor as gas, or can be frozen as a solid.  No matter what you do with water it is still water.  The properties change, but water remains as water even though it takes three different modes.  The same can be said of the Trinity.  God is still God, but just in three forms that share similar properties made up of one substance.  It’s crazy, I know.  Similes and metaphors get us close to an idea, but never fully explain it.   Trying to explain God is like trying to explain an emotion.  Words that can fully describe it.  How do you describe the Divine?  How do you describe something greater than ourselves?   We have some pretty good ways of describing God, but nothing can fully explain God.  There is a certain mystery there that we are meant to be in awe of.

In John 3, Jesus is trying to explain to Nicodemus the relationship of the Triune God and how he must be “born of water and Spirit”.  (John 3:5)  As a Jew, Nicodemus was under the covenant of Abraham and was “saved”.  Jesus seeks to introduce the new covenant of Christ’s sacrifice as the Son, the need to be born of the Holy Spirit through baptism, and understanding how the Father sent the Son out of love.  These were all new concepts to Nicodemus and that is why he asks, “How can anyone be born after having grown old?”  (John 3:4)   We, like Nicodemus, sometimes are confused by all the theology.  We need help to understand it.   Though we may struggle, Jesus made one thing clear: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

As we gather on this Trinity Sunday, I pray you will think about how the Trinity is an important understanding as a Christian.  We should seek to understand how the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are all God.  They are all unified, but each has distinct roles.  How have you connected with the Triune God?  Do you tend to focus on one and not the other?  How do you incorporate the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit in your worship, devotional time, and your life?   Last Sunday was Pentecost.  How does the Holy Spirit (often the ignored member of the Trinity) work in my life?

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worship

Does My Church Look Like a Warehouse?

For the last 20 or 25 years, it has become popular a church to build their worship and ministry space to look like a warehouse or storehouse (or use an actual warehouse).  After being a part of three capital improvement projects at three different churches, I have found there is a whole theology to church buildings.

The “Emergent” or “Emerging Church” and ultra contemporary church movement has found that many people are attracted to buildings that do not include religious symbols.  And, church buildings  should be more utilitarian than religious. Most of the time, building a church in a warehouse is an economical way to do church.   Aside from the  “store front” church, churches who desire to tone down a worship space do so for marketing reasons.  Mega and ultra contemporary churches try to draw in burned out Christians or seekers (the unchurched) who want church to be different than the traditional church service (3 hymns, sermon, and altar call).

Christianity Today wrote an intriguing article about how there is now a reverse trend in trying to attract seekers to churches.  The trend seems to be that now seekers and churches are reconsidering what they thought they wanted in a church building.  The article cites a survey which states that seekers  prefer a church to look like, well… a church.   The article reads:

….unchurched adults prefer Gothic church buildings to utilitarian ones, challenging the conventional wisdom that medieval-looking churches feel out-of-touch and stuffy to seekers.  LifeWay showed over 1,600 unchurched adults four pictures of church buildings, ranging from mall-like to Gothic. The majority preferred the most ornate church.

Not exactly scientific, but this survey shows that deep down inside, a church’s building says a lot about how the church sees itself regarding theology, evangelism, and Christ.  This study came out of  LifeWay, the publishing and ministry arm of the Southern Baptist Convention.

It is my firm belief that people want to seek the Divine in church community and in worship.  Based on anecdotal evidence, I have found that there is a segment of the church going population, who after several years at a ultra contemporary/mega church, desire to recapture the essence of what it means to worship, learn, live in faith, and fellowship in a congregation that seeks to be more dynamic and deeper in their approach.  Over the years, I have been a big fan of Robert Webber, who died recently.  Webber who began life as a Baptist and then switched denominations to become an Episcopalian, rediscovered liturgical worship with a contemporary twist.  In his book, Ancient-Future Faith he states:

Worship Renewal, then, is not a matter of gimmicks, but the recovery of the Christian vision of reality enacted by the community of God.  pg. 32

Then, Webber goes on to say:

In the 1980’s evangelicals sought to neutralize space to make the seeker more comfortable.  This worked in the 1980’s but is not the way to go in the postmodern world.  The inquirer needs to be immersed within a space that bespeaks the Christian faith.  The very narrative of faith which we seek to know and live is symbolically expressed in our space… Space becomes the visual image of the connection between the known and unknown. pg. 108

For Webber, and I agree, worship and our church buildings communicate who God is.  Symbols are important.  Symbols point to a great reality.  The cross is a symbol.  The communion table is a symbol.  The church is a symbol.  If we neutralize a church space, then are we neutralizing the symbol of the church?   Postmodernity has indeed reshaped our understanding.  Webber addresses the church within postmodernity:

In a postmodern world that has become increasingly interested in communication and space, it will be necessary to feature the relational seating of God people around the symbols of water, the pulpit, and the Table.  These are the primary visual images of God’s work in the history of salvation. pg. 108

I have a number of engaged couples who come from other churches looking for a church to get married in because their church does not “look” like a church.  They do not worship in a traditional looking church, but they want to get married in one.  That just shows how our culture is evolving and how Christians view worship space.

Churches and pastors should resist the empty showy gimmicks and trendy ideas about church and worship.  Instead, we must seek to put a theology behind our church and church buildings instead of only relying on marketing tactics.  There is a richness contained in the 2,000 years of worship, teaching, and theology that the church mothers and fathers have given to us.   There is nothing “wrong” with a contemporary church that meets in a warehouse, but the trend of the lack of Christian symbols and lack of focus upon theologically centered worship space is troubling.   When churches are able, they should think about building or obtaining a worship space that reflects Christian theology.  I should make it clear that many people have come to Christ in these trendy churches and these churches are meeting a need.   But, at some point, people are going to want more than flashy lights, loud bands, and Starbucks.

What do you think?